Book of Remembrance
Heartfelt messages and cherished memories shared by family and friends in honor of Linda Ann Pattenden.
Leave your own tribute to celebrate her life, love, and legacy.
Feburary 2, 2025
How do you even begin to share memories of your mum? It’s a lifetime of experiences. I fear too many memories are tainted by challenging teenage years. I have many memories of being disciplined and getting in trouble. However, when I do stop and allow myself to think about it, I do start to remember other things. I remember Mum having a go at our neighbour for complaining about me and my friends playing football in the garden and the ball hitting his fence. I remember teachers needing to be on their toes in case they said something wrong about me. I remember mum always being available to talk to me when I had a problem. At the time I hated the long lectures, but as I look back I realise how blessed I was to have a mother who would spend so much time talking about my issues. I remember mum helping me get ready for roadshows, talent festivals and would take me to every activity going at church. She would always help me fulfil my duty, whether at church or at cubs or at school. She was formidable and I always felt safe with her in my corner. Whilst we had our differences in my teenage years, she never abandoned me, she never gave up on helping me to become better. When I married and had children, Mum spoiled them. She loved her grandchildren. She loved her family. Everything in life was about her family. Our problems were her problems, our worries became her worries. She was relentless in trying to be there for each of us. She wasn’t perfect and neither am I or any of us, but she always kept trying. Even during the dementia months I believe she was still watching over us. I’m grateful to have had a mum who loved me and my family and who never took her eye off the great eternal reward.
Tim Pattenden
Feburary 2, 2025
Back in 1991 I joined Church and my friend Lynne was the one who introduced me to people, befriended me and made me welcome. We’ve remained friends throughout, with are ups and downs and challenges. With beautiful occasions, laughter, tears and joy in the gospel. Her great faith in our Saviour Jesus Christ, that families can be together forever, the eternities. Lynne loved Everyone in her family, striving for happiness, loyalty and love. God bless dear friend until we meet again.
Lesley McCulloch
Feburary 2, 2025
The only time I remember saying no to her was in 2003 she rang me to ask me to take her to Portsmouth. It was the day of the rugby world cup final.
Paul Knight
Feburary 3, 2025
What a wonderful Legacy Linda has left behind,and an admirable servant to you Shaun ,when you were called to be bishop at the chapel in Clifton drive in blacon,What a team,The Memory I have is the way Linda saw the goodness in my lovely departed wife Carol in calling her to the young women’s,she felt very inadequate but Linda nurtured her and with her support it was the best calling she ever had and they became very good friends. At that time I became a young men’s president and I felt humbled to guide such wonderful young men, including class president Tim ,so we played a lot of football and since I was the goalie they
nicknamed me Peter smickes,which even to this day I still get called thanks to TIm.
It’s going to be hard to loose LInda a wonderful Lady ,you know as well as I that one day you will be back together again in the arms of the lord. God bless,Peter
Peter Sumner
Feburary 3, 2025
My Aunty Lin.
As a child, there was no invitation more exciting than the one from my Aunty Lin. She always welcomed me to stay over at her house, as if my presence completed something. No matter how many times I visited, she always welcomed me with warmth and acceptance, as though I was part of her family. Her house had an atmosphere that was alive, buzzing with movement and laughter, a place where childhood felt endless. The fridge was always stocked with treats, but nothing compared to the cookie dough—the kind you baked yourself. My cousins and I would play for hours, our voices bouncing off the walls, feet thudding against the ceilings above. She never scolded us for the noise though, that was Uncle Shawn’s job, lol. Then there were the days out—time spent in Skegness and Blackpool, where the sea breeze carried the scent of salt, summer and adventure. The long car rides were never dull; she filled the time with snacks and pop songs making even the journey feel special. At Skegness, I remember going on rides before eating ice cream. In Blackpool, we walked beneath the glow of the famous illuminations, dazzled by the endless display of lights stretching along the promenade. She always made time for us going into the souvenir shops along the seafront, as if she was seeing the wonder of purchasing trinkets, fridge magnets and postcards through our eyes. And then, in the quiet of the evenings, I remember the way she would sit in front of the television, utterly captivated by reality dance shows. The glow of the screen lit up her face, her eyes soft with admiration as couples moved in perfect harmony across the floor. It was clear she appreciated the graceful romance of it all—the way two people could tell a story without words, just through movement. I think she saw something in those dances that mirrored her own heart: a love for connection, for the beauty found in togetherness. This is only a snapshot of my Aunty Lin, someone who valued family deeply, who saw joy in shared moments. Her open heart and generous spirit made her home a haven, not just for her own children but for me as well. She believed in love—not just romance, but the kind found in laughter, seaside adventures, and shared memories. My Aunty Lin wasn’t just someone who invited me in—she made me feel like I truly belonged.
Dale Pattenden
Feburary 3, 2025
I remember Linda leading Chester ward choir we had been practicing for weeks and we were going to sing at conferences the song was oh my father as she was conducting us her face was so animated I can still see it when I closes my eyes. When I first joined the church I was adamant that I wasn’t going to RS ( still something I am not that keen on today) and Linda was young women’s President and she told me that I would have to go sooner or later she got me there in the end. I remember her very clearly being with me when I went to the temple for my endowments Linda at my side and Mia Burns, taking care of me and making sure I was ok. I remember when we painted the outside of your house in sandycroft and taking about all your memories of that home. Such a huge part of what kept me coming to church in the early days. Thank you xx
Helen Griffiths
Feburary 3, 2025
She was so proud of all her family, and we often shared and supported each other. She was a rock, and so kind to me. I am so very grateful for her friendship xx
Pat Madison
Feburary 3, 2025
Dear Linda taken too soon, now sleeping peacefully x
Marilyn Robinson
Feburary 3, 2025
I remember watching your Lyn and Shaun at a dance at the Chapel. I marveled at the lightness and grace of their movements on the dance floor. It's a lovely memory of a lovely lady. I'm so sorry at her passing and feel for all your family. Love Shirley Sanders.
Shirley Sanders
Feburary 3, 2025
I loved the short time I got to see her weekly at institute. I found myself weekly looking forward to seeing her and Shaun. Their presence immediately made me feel a sense of calm, peace and happiness. I was sad when we had the changes. She was a wonderful woman, a real blessing to those like me who were blessed to know her. My thoughts and prayers are with you and your family.
Luke Kerr
Feburary 4, 2025
... I first want to share condolences to each of the family and hope as the days pass you will each feel peace and even joy in your hearts and minds as you consider the earth life of your Momma, Grandma, Aunty and friend.
In all of the years I have known Linda I have never had occasion to serve alongside her however, along with several Companions, I have visited as her Visiting Teacher and on compassionate service occasions.We would visit hoping to take warmth and strength to Linda however we were the ones who left feeling uplifted and edified.
Linda always welcomed us warmly into her home and we spent many hours laughing, sharing family experiences and the Gospel. It was obvious where Linda's loyalty lay every day of her earthly life. I loved how every member of her family has a place on her wall ( photographs that is ) especially in the lounge and she lovingly spoke of each personality with " pride" and affection.
Obviously, the passing of our Brothers and Sisters leaves a vacuum however amidst sadness there is joy knowing Linda is free from earthly restraints and can rally forward as the Missionary she has always been.
I pray for blessing on those of you who will undoubtedly be missing her most that you hearts will be comforted .. You Pattenden's have a great heritage.. keep soldiering on.. love and hugs all round,
Doreen. xx
Doreen Win
Feburary 4, 2025
Mum was a woman of unwavering faith, love, and devotion to her family. She saw prayer as the answer to all of life’s questions, both great and small, and never stopped nurturing those around her. She was our rock—fiercely protective, endlessly supportive, and always present. In her eyes, success wasn’t measured by worldly achievements but by the love and faithfulness of family. After my release as Bishop, she sent me a message reminding me that my greatest calling was to raise my children in righteousness, just as Lehi and Sariah did. It has taken me 20 years to truly understand, but now I do. My greatest accomplishment will be bringing my family back to her, and I cannot wait for that day.
Chris Pattenden
Feburary 4, 2025
I cant remember the exact moment in time when we first met as it was so long ago, but I do remember the warmth of her smile and her genuine friendship over the years.
Family and serving the Lord were always her main priorities... something we had in common I like to think. I always looked out for Linda whenever I visited the temple and I have missed her over the past few years. May she continue to find joy in all of her associations and may she find peace and rest in the loving arms of our Saviour Jesus Christ 🙏🙏🤗💝🤗💕
Linda Johnson
Feburary 4, 2025
Although we never met, my husband Donald Tanner had so much to say about the love he felt from Linda and Shaun while he was on his mission. It was always a dream of his to be able.to return 1 day and spend sometime with his favorite people. Sadly Don passed away just 1 month before Linda's passing. I am sure the 2 of them are hugging each other now and going over many many memories. My thoughts and prayers go out to the family during this difficult time
Shawna Clifton (Tanner)
Feburary 5, 2025
In 1978 while serving a mission in the England London South Mission I ran into Shaun Pattenden one day in a downtown part of Portsmouth. We had never met and when I stopped to chat with him he simply answered questions with such a knowledge of Christ and with great understanding I thought I was being punked.
When he introduced himself, we both laughed and chuckled and then began a conversation about his newly married spouse, Linda. He gave us permission to come by the house but with great reserve and feeling a bit nervous for our own safety in taking on Linda and attempting to share the message we had. We had a great time with both of them. Linda was at first a bit reluctant but we had created such a good friendship with them that we kept seeing them as often as time would permit. I can honestly say that to be part of watching the fire of the gospel ignite in her and this young testimony build and grow was the sweetest thing I have ever been a part of.
Upon setting her baptismal date , it turns out I was being transferred out of the area. Linda was not having any of that. She called President Richard Eyre and a number of companions had to be put on hold while I stayed and was able to baptize her as a member of the Kingdom of God. She was an elect Lady. A true Desciple of our savior. A fierce defender of the faith. I will always treasure the opportunity to have witnessed this remarkable change that took place and for the family she has taught over the years. I hope the family will find the comfort and peace in the knowledge of the Plan which she so dearly loved.
Shaun:
my heart aches for you and for your loss. One day we will all be together again and can share the laughs and joys we have had while here in mortality and be able share the eternities together. May God bless this family with strength and endurance during these hard times. “Let not your hearts be troubled, neither let them be afraid”
Until we meet again
Fair well to an extraordinary Daughter of God.
Darren (Elder) Hedin
Feburary 5, 2025
I have so many stories of how you and Shaun were there for me, especially at times I thought I couldn’t cope with life.
Shaun has always been more than my big brother. He stepped in for all of us as a father figure when my parents separated at a time when he was very young, and started dating you not long after, so you really had no choice in taking all of us on as well. it’s not surprising then that you have always been much more than an sister in law, especially to me, as I was at a vulnerable age and turning into a rebellious teenager.
You are my sister in every way possible, I love you dearly as I do my brother, nephews and nieces. You are all so special to me.
I was a bridesmaid at your wedding, aged 14, and was so happy with the choice of dress, as, no disrespect to my sister sharon, but at aged 11 feeling like I would soon become a teen, I was put in what I considered a very child like dress and the worst bonnet I had ever seen. It’s okay, I’ve had this conversation with sharon many times so she knows how I felt.
I think I cried most of the day.
Your wedding also opened the door to a close relationship with your mum, dad, sister Cathy, and husband Graham who befriended us, including us in ballroom dance lessons, activities and dinners, which both mum and I really enjoyed. I’m sure most of us have seen the love that Shaun and Lyn had for dancing, it bought both of them so much joy.
One last important memory is of a time that we were visiting when my eldest son disappeared on us in a local busy shopping centre. I, of course was in total panic mode. We searched and spoke to security, asking shoppers if they had seen him. You gathered us together and insisted we pray which of course we did. Almost immediately after that prayer a lady noticing our panic approached us and told us she had found a young dark haired boy seemingly lost and handed him over to an on duty policeman who had headed to the local station on foot. She directed us to that same station where we all quickly piled in and found my son happily sitting on the desk, eating biscuits. Thank goodness for your quick faith in the power of prayer.
You have touched the lives of many of us and none more than your family, which I will forever be grateful to be a member of.
Always in my heart, dearest sister xx
Stella Snelling
Feburary 7, 2025
During my childhood and teenage years, Lyn was like a big sister to me. She was also my Young Women’s president, and after activities or babysitting, we often had long conversations about church, boys, school, and my hopes for the future. She was always there to listen and offer advice.
After one of Shaun and Lyn’s children was born (I can’t quite remember which one—maybe Stuart), I stayed at their home for a few days to help out. I’m not sure how much help I actually was, but I loved spending time with Lyn and my nephews and nieces.
I also have fond memories of going on holiday to the Isle of Wight with Shaun, Lyn, and their kids. Thank you, Lyn, for letting me be the tagalong little sister, for your advice, chats, and your unwavering example of faith.
Until we meet again, dear sister.
Sarah Phillips
Feburary 7, 2025
My auntie Lyn made my bridesmaids dress for my cousins wedding when I was young. I can remember going round for dress fittings and have fond memories of her kindness.
I also have fond memories of regular sleepovers round my cousins house. We were doing a roadshow play for our church and auntie Lyn helped us rehearse and made our outfits. She was very talented. Love you auntie Lyn xx
Bethany Snelling
Feburary 8, 2025
Linda ,Lyn is my friend, we worked at the Distribution Centre together, we shared a job!!! We laughed a lot and cried a lot and rejoiced in the Gospel together and I watched as her health declined and couldn't do anything to help. Through it all her smile lit up my life , I am looking forward to seeing her again where we can laugh and rejoice once more, Donna
Donna Hargreaves
Feburary 9, 2025
Sending much love for a wonderful, kind and giving person. One of my favourite memories was watching you dance Linda, so elegant on the dance floor xxx
Jackie & Caitlin
Feburary 9, 2025
Amen to that!! I love & admire all these wonderful qualities of Lyn’s. I was a beneficiary of them MANY times. A wonderful example for me to follow too!
I have many memories & they bring me joy & a warm feeling.. thank you Lyn. You’re a wonderful eternal friend & I look forward to the day we will meet again; we served together in Young Women’s & Primary.. a great leader, organiser & delegator who stretched & challenged & helped me to grow when I didn’t believe I could; singing in the choir with Paulette & the 2 Lesleys; I loved watching her & Shaun dancing; teaching us the quickstep at a YW’s activity; visiting her in hospital when Alice was born.
Dear Lyn I’ve missed you & I’m sending you all my love ❤️ Judith
Judith Hudson
Feburary 9, 2025
Chester Ward has never felt the same to me since the wonderful Pattenden’s moved away. Oh how i loved sister Linda Pattenden . we had the best Choir in the Stake. linda was Chester’s Musical Director And oh she was the best - incredibly patient and kind with those she worked alongside. Music and dance was her passion and this was evident throughout our wonderful Choir Renditions.
I have fond memories of many activities which were carefully planned . everyone was welcome and encouraged to take part.. lots of yummy food and drinks of various type and of course we would always find Lyn in the kitchen organising .. every activity would end with Lyn and Sean tidying up the mess bin bags in hand..we had so much fun and a lot of laughs.
i remember Lyn’s fervent testimony of our saviour jesus christ ..great faith and such honest dedication loving and compassionate which was apparent from calling to calling.. lyn worked tirelessly with a sound knowledge of all her callings always teaching and expounding with ideas and solutions.
Lyn was the perfect example and friend to me as a young single parent . Both Lyn and Bishop Pattenden were a power of strength in our ward.. even going as far as opening their home to the entire ward..
nothing was impossible if Lyn was involved..
Now we have her “dancing feet”,oh how Brother and sister Pattenden could dance!!!! Lyn could move around that Cultural Hall so fast just like Fred Astaire and Ginger Rodger’s!!!
After there move to Chorley lyn could be found busily working at the Temple Distribution Centre where i am sure she once again would offer her whole self to the care of others. What an incredible lady. Lyn loved her family with all her heart.. A faithful servant of our heavenly father and his son jesus christ.
Lesley Anne Murphy
Feburary 10, 2025
Dear Mum, I’ve come on here to write a tribute a few times and words have failed me each time. Today we laid you to rest, I can’t quite get my head and heart around that. I didn’t know grief could feel like it felt today, I miss you so very much. I love you with all my heart. I did from the first time I came and stayed with you all as a young 19 year old all those years ago when Chris and I started dating. I remember being so in awe of how you were very clearly the matriarch in the family. Within a few months you’d taken me under your wing and were including me as part of the family. I LOVED spending time with you. I loved chatting with you. I have some of the fondest memories of singing in the Stake Choir with you, being in the Temple with you, days out, holidays and dancing away at many a family event! I’ll never forget, though, how on the day you and Dad had said goodbye to Alice when she left to serve her mission, you showed up on our doorstep, in tears because you were missing your baby girl already. I remember feeling so much love for you as I gently pulled you in and hugged you through your tears. I felt so privileged that you’d come to me in your moment of sadness. That will be an image in my mind that I will carry with me always until we meet again and embrace through tears in heaven. Thank you for being the best Nan to our children. I promise to keep your memory alive always for them. I love you, Mum 🩵
Rachael Pattenden, your daughter-in-law
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